LOVE.....so over used it shouldn't be used. Mostly love leaves you feeling used. In the name of "love" people try to rise above...by pushing you down, down until you let yourself down. "Love" can make you do crazy things, or rather the fear of loosing that love. What makes us so afraid, why do we fear the absence of the person who made us feel this way? Why do we fear never feeling this way again? Even during the rain we know the sun will come another day. Whoever said "love hurts" never knew my view. Real love....shouldn't have to hurt. How can you say you love someone and not do everything in your power to ensure their happiness? I'm not saying people don't fall in and out of love, things change, people change. But when you realize things aren't the same in her eyes, don't paralyze. Don't use her love for you as a weapon or toy....are you doing this for joy? Love shouldn't be about power and control....if you don't love her let her go.....I've had this happen, I know. Love is everything and nothing......it's what you make of it, how you take it, it's also how you break it.
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CHERISH.......to me means so much more than love could ever be. Cherish is a word much overlooked, give me a chance I'll have you shook. To me, when you cherish something, it's deeper than love. Cherish means value, respect, desire for something higher than just plain ole "love". I can "love" you and not even like you. But as long as I cherish you, you can know for a fact I love you, and like you too. You can love without cherishing, but not the other way around. When you cherish, you don't try to bring her down, you do everything in your power to build her up. And when she gets up, you keep her up, even through the downs. When you cherish her, you listen to her....not just hear her to be near her until your own needs are met. When she has made you know for a fact that she loves you to the point that you feel comfortable, even eager,to use that love she has for you to make threats and play mind games to control her and mold her to your wants and desires,that's not love. Love is the power and knowledge of both good and bad in a person. Love gives you the knowledge and the power to hurt her. Cherishing her is never wanting to use that knowledge against her.
Look closely and hear me well, read this again and you can tell. Alot of the words used in the name of love are negative and mean. You can have the things in Cherish if you just let yourself dream.
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